Sometimes, they guy would be cheating on them with some random girl that he met at work or at a bar, while at other times it would be someone the girl knew fairly well or it was even her friend.Being scarred by prior disappointments in guys who cheated on them, many women are unable to enjoy their present relationship, even when everything seems to be great, because of that constant fear that sooner or later their boyfriend, or a husband will cheat on them, just like the others did in the past.A guy will pretend to like the girl just to get in her pants, but if there is nothing else between them besides sexual attraction and they have nothing to talk or laugh about outside of bad, that affair is doomed to be limited to sex and in time till that guy finds a better or at least newer “deal”.
It’s difficult for me to state that he has physically committed adultery if there is no proof of him doing it, for example, you have and see for yourself what your husband is doing when you aren’t around but make sure to gather your evidence first before you approach him because it sounds like he will most certainly get angry and irrational.
Get your plan together as to what you will do if you do find proof of his infidelity before you approach him and try to stay as calm as possible when approaching him with any evidence found.
Some men “settle down” or marry while they still have this urge to have new and multiple sexual partners and many of them act on it.
Thus, no matter how wonderful their girlfriend or wife is going to be, they will not stop pursuing new interactions with women and new sexual experiences.
There is more to that drive than just trying to get laid.
The desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth.He says he is too tired to have sex when I want to or he just flat out says “no! Dear Confused & Hurt, First and foremost, any man that lays a hand on a pregnant woman is no respectable man. Getting defensive is a good indication you are not being told the truth.I can definitely understand your trust issues, especially when you have indicated to him that what he is doing is inappropriate and he is still continuing his in your marriage.You have already stated that he has been on dating websites (which by the way, why would you need to be on a dating site if you are married?Dating sites are for single people for anyone wondering.) and even a “hook-up” dating site where people go to find others to have sex with!My husband and I have been together 3 years, married for 2! When I was around 5 months pregnant, I went through his phone and found him talking to girls but he said that they were just friends he worked with.