Then there are the six ‘things’ that attract women to men. He tops off that thinking by declaring that, “NOTHING works for me like humor mixed with arrogance”.
(Keep in mind that there are some crazy viruses, diseases, and other scary bugs that want to jump on your wiener. ‘How To Develop A Personality That Is Irresistible To Women’ tells guys to be ‘different’ in an attractive way. De Angelo is very hung up on the importance of using humour to make women attracted to you.
Insecurity and neediness are big no-nos, of course. His attempts at how even not-so-funny guys can easily do this are not that convincing, unfortunately.
Looks and body language get an entire chapter (Chapter 5).
De Angelo has this to say: “I personally believe that when a man is self-confident (or more specifically, a woman BELIEVES that he is), women are attracted to him on an UNCONSCIOUS level”. Again, this is an assertion that is easier said than done, IMHO. That means making sure his digs are clean and tidy when she comes around, as well as learning how to cook a few good meals and even quickly reading up on topics like reflexology, tarot, psychic readings, palmistry – you know, the kind of stuff that women are so utterly entranced by in their spare time. Chapter 7 is really handy in that it tells guys where they can normally meet women.
Double Your Dating is the branding equivalent of a damp squib. He writes more like an older brother and less like a mentor or guide.
He doesn’t inform or advise so much as dictate and command.
The clichés fly thick and fast, which is why this course is only recommended for those with few and shallow expectations.
The Double Your Dating manual clocks in at 148 pages – not the worst page count, but hefty enough.
Women are “full of drama,” according to De Angelo, precisely because it gets the attention of men, it sends emotional impulses through her body and because, well, it’s fun.
It’s a game to them, and you need to play on your terms and show who’s boss. De Angelo tells guys to ask themselves questions like, ‘“How would I walk if I believed that I could make any woman feel great inside? Exclusivity (royalty, already married, hard to get, etc.) Those first five make for a depressing list in that there’s not much most guys can do about being rich or powerful or famous – or royalty for that matter.
These are some of the words in David De Angelo’s introduction to his manual: “It’s taken me a long time to figure out all of the things that you’re about learn [sic]. To which I immediately thought: please God, just don’t let it feel like years Double Your Dating’s manual is divided into ten chapters.