I, at 40, would never even consider a 25 year old, but that's just me. Just take a little extra time to make sure it is actually the right person before throwing everything into it. Many younger folks are still evolving and maturing, and their wants, needs and goals can change much quicker than the older folks.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.She may look decent at 40, but when she turns 50 and he's only 35 (and has the option to date women as young as 25-27), he'll likely start looking for someone younger.Of course she can pursue something with him, but there will likely come a time when he desires someone his own age or younger.You might be a bit young for your age, she might be a bit mature for hers, but it's a good chance that your friends and her friends aren't. I have a 30ish friend who doesn't seem to have too many problems attracting 20 year olds (he doesn't really go after them, they come after him).
I've hung out with him once or twice when he was hanging around with her and her group. I just feel at times that these girls are looking at me like i am an old perverted geaser and will not give me the time of day.
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I told her that if he is nice and mature I dont' see a problem.
The way I see it there are 40 year old men who are committment phobes and very immature so if she finds a 25 year old who she likes what is wrong with that.
Don't go changing the rules 1/2 way through the game now As for me, no, I don't think 30 is too old or Im in a bit of trouble myself. I've met twenty year old ladies who were more together and had more maturity than ladies in their thirty's and the same holds true for some males. I have a guy friend who is 28 and we get along just fine. I like guys that are in there late twentys, early 30s.