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My mother warned me not to marry him, but I ignored her and we held the wedding in December of that year.

I overlooked the fact that Carol could barely stand at the ceremony.

Friends who criticised Carol were simply cut out of my life.

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At 67, my husband had been seriously ill for the last ten years of our marriage.

And I — far from being the ‘hot young bimbo’ — was, at 45, more like his carer. He already had two daughters from his first marriage, who are now in their 40s, and even though I would have loved to have had children, I foolishly allowed myself to be bullied out of motherhood.

Not only at my husband’s betrayal — but because our marriage was nothing like the one he had described in such prurient detail.

We hadn’t had sex for over a decade, and it was highly unlikely we’d ever make love again.

In 1995, when I was 38 and Carol 60, he was admitted to hospital for open-heart surgery.

The procedure went disastrously wrong, and he contracted MRSA, leaving him in a coma for six weeks.

It was at that moment, ten years ago, I realised marrying a man more than two decades older than me was the biggest mistake of my life. I was 28 and Carol 50 when ‘that’ conversation first came up.

Now, my blood always runs cold whenever I read in celebrity magazines and newspapers of young women in their 20s falling for older — and invariably richer — men. We weren’t yet married and he’d made it abundantly clear that the only life he was interested in was one with fine wines and no ‘whiny kids’.

And for a while I truly believed it would work: one of my happiest memories was of us sitting outside a restaurant in the French resort town of La Rochelle, full of optimism about our new life together.

Not only was I working flat-out to make a career for myself in a foreign country so I could pay our bills, I was also providing round-the-clock care for Carol.

What hadn’t crossed my mind was that Carol had an enormous head start in that department. He’d been married before and was reluctant to commit again.