Where Scorpio views his own self identity is also where Aquarius understands how perfect strangers perceive her social persona.
This is a breeding ground for misunderstanding, when these two try to spend compared notes as confidantes.
I get Aqua/Scorpio stories like that, all the time. On paper, Scorp and Aqua love can be found wanting in the listening department.Work on acceptance without judgement, and especially on listening and respecting each other’s experience. In astro terms, we’re looking at Scorpio house of self-image landing in Aquarius’ house of social identity to explain this common roadbump.Your Aqua has never (or rarely ever has) enjoyed an intriguing connection like this, before you came along to open it up.Her way of relating is as much a sincere effort in getting used to letting herself enjoy this thing of yours together, and that has its own vulnerability that you’re simply not ready to understand, until you get over your own concerns to really see Aqua vulnerability for what it is.That kind of tension seems like it can manage itself on autopilot, until it doesn’t.
Emotional blockage between Aqua-Scorp leads to sweeping under the carpet, building into emotional constipation until (excuse the mental imagery) it turns to emotional blow-ups between the two.
Learning to navigate her eccentric ways is not for the faint of heart.
But for a warm-hearted, confident man who loves a challenge, the Aquarius woman is the ultimate dream girl.
There’s always a strong temptation for Scorpio to assume they know how to listen to Aquarius’ vulnerability, or for Aquarius to assume they know how to relate to Scorpio’s problems.
Neither of you do; pretenses can be the death of you.
The Aquarius woman and Gemini man both may be air-heads and will understand that about each other.