I work at a fitness center so I see lots of hot women all the time.
With out even thinking or pausing the words just came out. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you but to the rest a the world this is kinda normal so you might not want to go telling every stranger you see." Then I just walked off with my weights to do my sets.
5 min later she comes over to me and apologizes and asks for my number. Your letter is really a wonderful affirmation and summary of some of my favorite concepts: 1) Read my book, "Double Your Dating" 2) Actually use the material and mentally rehearse 3) Start from where you are 4) Be Cocky & Funny 5) Show complete indifference 6) Use illogical Jedi-Level mind power to create ATTRACTION.
Turns out she didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked up by losers while she was trying to do a workout. I'm going to talk more about eye contact and body language in a moment, but if you'd like to get the ultimate education on how to be Cocky & Funny, then you MUST take a minute and get this: OK... First of all, your story would make NO sense at all to most guys. She was probably abused as a child and wants you to be her daddy." or "Well, if I worked at a gym, I could do that too." Of course, you realize that this had nothing to do with it...
this was a result of you learning about how women are, then preparing, and then taking action. Now, let's talk about some of the things that were happening that most people would MISS when reading the story...
I did as your book recommended and started picturing myself as the cocky funny person I wanted to be.
I even did the whole daydream practice thing everyday.I decided that before I started trying to approach women I would make it my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye contact and hold it until they looked away. After practicing eye contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole mental exercise thing, I was at work one day working out after my break and was practicing my eye contact thing between sets with this really hot girl near the dumbbell rack.I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause I had no intentions of acting.I mean, men are supposed to "court" women, compliment them... "HOW TO CONVINCE THE WOMAN YOU DESIRE THAT YOU HAVE NO BACKBONE AND WOULD PAY ANY PRICE FOR HER ATTENTION" ...."SIMPLE TECHNIQUES FOR GIVING A WOMAN YOUR REPRODUCTIVE EQUIPMENT ON A PLATTER". CAN YOU PUT ASIDE YOUR PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS ABOUT WHY MEN AND WOMEN "SHOULD" BE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER LONG ENOUGH TO SEE WHY THEY ACTUALLY ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER?***QUESTION*** Just wanted to share a little bit of what your lessons have done for me.