A similar thing is true of women who like "assholes." They only like those men because they are also strong, or confident, or powerful.
If the woman has strong boundaries, she won’t hesitate to delete his contact information, and tell him when he calls back three days later that he can go fuck himself.If the woman has medium boundaries, she will probably keep his contact info and ask him what happened, but ultimately agree to another date – despite being under-impressed with his excuse.I'd heard of the book a couple times outside of the blog as well, so about six months ago, after a handful of these requests, I decided to get a copy to see what it was all about.My conclusion was that the book is saying something true, but also saying it poorly.It plays on an attention-grabbing title, at the expense of clearly telling women the crucial point - namely, that being a bitch, in-and-of-itself, is actually very unattractive to men.
My worry is that some women read the book and start being bitchy in an attempt to attract men, just like many men try to be assholes to attract women.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
A girl with weak boundaries will immediately tell the guy that it isn't a strict requirement, and that he should just come anyway.
A woman with medium boundaries won't bend on the requirement, but she might offer to help him find some neon clothes.
The person asking for donations is enthusiastic and persistent.