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While I was thrilled to get to know so many families, one wise woman saw the burnout coming.She advised me to pray and ask God which of these families he was asking me to invest in.Conversely, unmarried men and women are not the church’s workhorses.

I know because I’ve been in both camps, depending on where I am in the cycle of hope or despair and how I am working that out in my soul before God.Therefore, I have a list of insights about single adults that I’d like to offer to church leaders.A single woman in her 50s with a demanding career caring for elderly parents is not equivalent to a recent college grad who is still living at home.Both are unmarried, yes, but chances are, the older single woman and the parents of the college grad may have more in common.He suggested I create an advisory board to help me evaluate my invitations and schedule.

The goal of the advisory board was to make sure I was not traveling too much.By knowing those relationships where I was to say yes, I knew also where I could say no without guilt.Years later, when the speaking invitations started to roll in after the publication of my first book, my pastor saw where I could be driven by an open calendar.We are often The Singles: one monolithic block of unmarried people.But there are as many stages and seasons to single adult life as there are for married adults.Carolyn Mc Culley is the founder of Citygate Films and the director/producer of the Desiring God short film, The Story of Ian and Larissa.