They’ve been through a lot more in their life so their going to be less reactive and have more control over their emotions and behaviors.
But don’t forget that just because older women are more mature doesn’t mean they don’t like having fun.
But in order to get to this point you’ve got to lead the way.
The 22-year-old who goes clubbing every weekend is probably going to spend more nights in calmer environments (like a jazz bar, or home) by the time she hits 30.
So if you’re interested in spending time in more low-key environments, then dating older women is a great way to go.
The fact is the same playful, child-like banter that works with younger women is going to work with older women too.
So if you’re chatting up an older woman, you may want to use a playful banter line like “this is never going to work out… A line like that is great because not only does it get her laughing, but by joking about the age difference you show you’re not concerned about it.
And if you’re not concerned about it, it’s easier for her to not worry about it either.
Older women are likely going to have different interests than their younger counterparts.
It’ll just be a matter of time until things naturally spill over into the bedroom.
If you’re used to dating younger women or women your age then dating women a few years older than you gives you a fantastic opportunity to grow.
Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).
When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).
Rapport is essentially sharing your emotional world with one another.