S., said the findings could be down to the fact that young men often have few people in whom they confide - apart from their romantic partner.Whereas women are more likely to have close relationships with family and friends.
Strain in a relationship could also be linked to poor emotional well-being because it threatens young men's sense of identity and feelings of self-worth.Another factor was that men and women express emotional distress in different ways.Romantic ups and downs apparently have a greater effect on the mental health of young men than women.While women are more likely to display their depression to friends, men are more likely to store up their feelings - with negative health effects including making them more likely to drink alcohol.Justin and I had dated off and on for years, and some part of me always believed we would end up married. I was quiet, studious, painfully shy; he was full of boisterous energy and crude jokes.
Our parents were close friends, and we’d grown up together. I loved his pug nose, his fiery red hair, and his teasing smiles.'Women express emotional distress with depression, while men express emotional distress with substance problems,' Professor Simon said.The study, in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior, was based on a survey of 1,000 unmarried 18- to 23-year-olds in Florida.In the months before the trial, Justin had a lot of time to think. We wrote about books and family and mutual friends.I’d tell him about quitting Subway after only a few weeks, and then I’d describe my nights working at the next job, front desk clerk at a hotel and casino.Professor Robin Simon, who led the study, admitted she was shocked that the results overturned the widespread assumption that women are more vulnerable to the emotional rollercoaster of relationships.