RED FLAG #6: He receives calls from his cell phone that he will not answer in front of you.Secrecy is paramount to the man who is married but yet presents himself as being single.
However, there is no open civil case listing her new lover as a plaintiff or a defendant anywhere.
RED FLAG #2: You get a call from his wife while you are at work asking you why your number appears in his call log so often.
RED FLAG #9: He only has time to be with you during a four-hour window after he gets off work.
If your new man habitually places severe restrictions on the times and places he can see you, either he is dating someone else or he is married.
As a woman with many single girlfriends, I have continuously shared the excitement when a friend met a new and interesting man only to learn later in the relationship that her new lover had lied about his single status.
Often, women get caught up in the hot romance of a new relationship.RED FLAG #7: He never invites you over to his home and insists that you only spend time together at your residence.The reason he doesn't want you to come to his house is either because his home looks like he lives in a college dorm or because he is married.It usually begins with the woman having a talk with her new man and questioning him about her suspicions.He replies that while he is technically married he is separated from his wife and has filed for divorce.RED FLAG #3: He says he has filed for divorce, but you cannot find an open civil case in any county within a one-hundred mile radius.